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DAILY VERSE
For your Maker is your husband — the LORD Almighty is his name — the Holy One of Israel is your Redeemer; he is called the God of all the earth. —Isaiah 54:5
For your Maker is your husband — the LORD Almighty is his name — the Holy One of Israel is your Redeemer; he is called the God of all the earth.

"For God so loved the world..." "The Father, from whom every family on earth derives its name..." God is not just the God of Israel. The LORD God, ruler of heaven and earth, is the God of all nations and one day, "every knee will bow and every tongue will confess... that Jesus Christ is Lord to the glory of God the Father."

DAILY SYNEXARIUM
14 Amshir 1738

Day 14 of the Blessed Coptic Month of Amshir, may God make it always received, year after year, with reassurance and tranquility, while our sins after forgiven by the tender mercies of our God my fathers and brothers.
Amen.

The Fourteenth Day of the Blessed Month of Amshir

Departure of St.Severus, the Patriarch of Antioch

      On this day of the year 538 A.D., the holy father St. Severus, Patriarch of Antioch, departed. He was from Asia Minor. His grandfather, whose name was also Severus, saw in a vision someone telling him, "The child who is for your son will strengthen Orthodoxy, and his name will be after your name." When his son had this saint, he called him Severus. He was taught the Greek wisdom and church subjects. Once, the saint was strolling outside the city, a shut-in saint came out of his cave crying, "Welcome to you Severus, teacher of Orthodoxy, and Patriarch of Antioch." Severus marvelled at how he called him by his name, for he did not know him before, and how he foretold what would become of him. Severus grew in virtue and became a monk in the monastery of St. Romanus. The fame of his righteousness and his ascetic life spread out. When the Patriarch of Antioch departed, the bishops had a consensus to ordain him the Patriarch of the city in the year 512 A.D. The church was illuminated by his teachings which spread to all the universe, and he was one of the fathers who attended the Universal Council at Ephesus.

      Shortly after, Emperor Anastasius died and Justinian, who was Chalcedonian in faith, reigned after him. He called upon this holy father and gave him great honors to persuade him to change his stand and to follow the Emperor's belief, but the Saint refused. The Emperor became angry, but the Saint did not fear his anger, and so the Emperor ordered him to be killed. Theodora, the Emperor's wife who was Orthodox in faith, knew about what the Emperor intended to do, so she told the saint to flee from his face. St. Severus escaped to the land of Egypt and traveled everywhere and visited monasteries disguised as a monk. He strengthened the faith of the believers in the Orthodox doctrine. He dwelt in the city of Sakha in the home of a holy lay leader called Doretheos. God performed through him many miracles. He departed in the city of Sakha, and his body was relocated to the monastery of El-Zugag.

May His prayers be with us. Amen.

Departure of St.James, the Fiftieth Pope of Alexandria (St.Yacobus)

      On this day also of the year 821 A.D., the great saint Abba James (St. Yacobus), 50th Pope of Alexandria, departed. He was a monk in the monastery of St.Macarius. For his holiness and righteousness, he was chosen by a consensus to become patriarch after Pope Mark, 49th Pope, had departed. He was enthroned in the month of Bashans in the year 810 A.D. St. James renovated the churches and populated the monasteries, and God granted him the gift of performing miracles. One of the deacons in Alexandria dared to say to him rudely, "Pay what you owe to the churches, or else go to your monastery." The Pope replied to him, "You will never see me again from now on." The deacon went home, immediately became sick and died shortly after. Another miracle: There was a lay leader (Archon) named Macarius from Nabarouh who was very well advanced in years and had no children. After a while, God gave him a son. He made a feast to celebrate this occasion, and invited Abba James. During the celebration, the child died but his father did not panic. He carried the child in his hands and placed him in faith before the Pope, trusting that God would hear His chosen one, and give life to his child. The Pope took the child and made the sign of the cross on his forehead, his heart and his chest, while he prayed, "My Master, Jesus Christ, the Giver of Life, raise this child alive again by Your mighty power." He breathed in his face, and the soul of the child returned to him, and he gave him to his father. When he finished his good strife, Abba James departed in peace, after he had been on the throne of St. Mark for 10 years, 9 months and 28 days.

May His prayers be with us and Glory be to our God forever. Amen.

 

DAILY KATEMAROS
Monday, 21ST February 2022 --- 14 Amshir 1738

Vespers

Vespers Psalm

From the Psalms of our teacher David the prophet.
May his blessings be with us all.

Psalms 15 : 1 - 2

Chapter 15

1 LORD, who may abide in Your tabernacle? Who may dwell in Your holy hill?
2 He who walks uprightly, And works righteousness, And speaks the truth in his heart;

Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord. Our Lord God, Savior, and King of us all, Jesus Christ, the Living Son of God to whom be glory forever.
Amen. 

Vespers Gospel

Stand in the fear of God and listen to the Holy Gospel.
A reading from the Gospel according to our teacher Saint John the Evangelist.
May His Blessings be with us all.

John 4 : 46 - 53

Chapter 4

46 So Jesus came again to Cana of Galilee where He had made the water wine. And there was a certain nobleman whose son was sick at Capernaum.
47 When he heard that Jesus had come out of Judea into Galilee, he went to Him and implored Him to come down and heal his son, for he was at the point of death.
48 Then Jesus said to him, "Unless you people see signs and wonders, you will by no means believe."
49 The nobleman said to Him, "Sir, come down before my child dies!"
50 Jesus said to him, "Go your way; your son lives." So the man believed the word that Jesus spoke to him, and he went his way.
51 And as he was now going down, his servants met him and told him, saying, "Your son lives!"
52 Then he inquired of them the hour when he got better. And they said to him, "Yesterday at the seventh hour the fever left him."
53 So the father knew that it was at the same hour in which Jesus said to him, "Your son lives." And he himself believed, and his whole household.

And Glory be to God forever. 

 

 

 


 

Matins

Matins Psalm

From the Psalms of our teacher David the prophet.
May his blessings be with us all.

Psalms 24 : 3 - 4

Chapter 24

3 Who may ascend into the hill of the LORD? Or who may stand in His holy place?
4 He who has clean hands and a pure heart, Who has not lifted up his soul to an idol, Nor sworn deceitfully.

Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord. Our Lord God, Savior, and King of us all, Jesus Christ, the Living Son of God to whom be glory forever.
Amen. 

 

Matins Gospel

Stand in the fear of God and listen to the Holy Gospel.
A reading from the Gospel according to our teacher Saint John the Evangelist.
May His Blessings be with us all.

John 3 : 17 - 21

Chapter 3

17 For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved.
18 "He who believes in Him is not condemned; but he who does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
19 And this is the condemnation, that the light has come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil.
20 For everyone practicing evil hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his deeds should be exposed.
21 But he who does the truth comes to the light, that his deeds may be clearly seen, that they have been done in God."

And Glory be to God forever. 

 

 

 


 

Liturgy Gospel

Paulines Epistle

Paul, the servant of our Lord Jesus Christ, called to be an apostle, appointed to the Gospel of God.
A reading from the Epistle of our teacher Paul to the Hebrews .
May his blessings be upon us.
Amen.

Hebrews 7 : 1 - 17

Chapter 7

1 For this Melchizedek, king of Salem, priest of the Most High God, who met Abraham returning from the slaughter of the kings and blessed him,
2 to whom also Abraham gave a tenth part of all, first being translated "king of righteousness," and then also king of Salem, meaning "king of peace,"
3 without father, without mother, without genealogy, having neither beginning of days nor end of life, but made like the Son of God, remains a priest continually.
4 Now consider how great this man was, to whom even the patriarch Abraham gave a tenth of the spoils.
5 And indeed those who are of the sons of Levi, who receive the priesthood, have a commandment to receive tithes from the people according to the law, that is, from their brethren, though they have come from the loins of Abraham;
6 but he whose genealogy is not derived from them received tithes from Abraham and blessed him who had the promises.
7 Now beyond all contradiction the lesser is blessed by the better.
8 Here mortal men receive tithes, but there he receives them, of whom it is witnessed that he lives.
9 Even Levi, who receives tithes, paid tithes through Abraham, so to speak,
10 for he was still in the loins of his father when Melchizedek met him.
11 Therefore, if perfection were through the Levitical priesthood (for under it the people received the law), what further need was there that another priest should rise according to the order of Melchizedek, and not be called according to the order of Aaron?
12 For the priesthood being changed, of necessity there is also a change of the law.
13 For He of whom these things are spoken belongs to another tribe, from which no man has officiated at the altar.
14 For it is evident that our Lord arose from Judah, of which tribe Moses spoke nothing concerning priesthood.
15 And it is yet far more evident if, in the likeness of Melchizedek, there arises another priest
16 who has come, not according to the law of a fleshly commandment, but according to the power of an endless life.
17 For He testifies: "You are a priest forever According to the order of Melchizedek."

The grace of God the Father be with you all.
Amen. 

 

 




Catholic Epistle

A Reading from Epistle 2 of St. John .
May his blessing be upon us.
Amen.

2 John 1 : 1 - 13

Chapter 1

1 The Elder, To the elect lady and her children, whom I love in truth, and not only I, but also all those who have known the truth,
2 because of the truth which abides in us and will be with us forever:
3 Grace, mercy, and peace will be with you from God the Father and from the Lord Jesus Christ, the Son of the Father, in truth and love.
4 I rejoiced greatly that I have found some of your children walking in truth, as we received commandment from the Father.
5 And now I plead with you, lady, not as though I wrote a new commandment to you, but that which we have had from the beginning: that we love one another.
6 This is love, that we walk according to His commandments. This is the commandment, that as you have heard from the beginning, you should walk in it.
7 For many deceivers have gone out into the world who do not confess Jesus Christ as coming in the flesh. This is a deceiver and an antichrist.
8 Look to yourselves, that we do not lose those things we worked for, but that we may receive a full reward.
9 Whoever transgresses and does not abide in the doctrine of Christ does not have God. He who abides in the doctrine of Christ has both the Father and the Son.
10 If anyone comes to you and does not bring this doctrine, do not receive him into your house nor greet him;
11 for he who greets him shares in his evil deeds.
12 Having many things to write to you, I did not wish to do so with paper and ink; but I hope to come to you and speak face to face, that our joy may be full.
13 The children of your elect sister greet you. Amen.

Do not love the world or the things in the world.
The world passes away, and its desires; but he who does the will of God abides forever.
Amen. 

 

 

 


 

Acts of the Apostles

The Acts of our fathers the apostles, may their blessings be with us.

Acts 18 : 9 - 12

Chapter 18

9 Now the Lord spoke to Paul in the night by a vision, "Do not be afraid, but speak, and do not keep silent;
10 for I am with you, and no one will attack you to hurt you; for I have many people in this city."
11 And he continued there a year and six months, teaching the word of God among them.
12 When Gallio was proconsul of Achaia, the Jews with one accord rose up against Paul and brought him to the judgment seat,

The word of the Lord shall grow, multiply, be mighty, and be confirmed, in the holy Church of God.
Amen. 

 

 

 


 

 

Divine Psalm

Stand in the fear of God and listen to the Holy Gospel.
A reading from the Gospel according to our teacher Saint John the Evangelist.
May His Blessings be with us all. Amen.
From the Psalms of our teacher David the prophet, and the Good King.
May his blessings be with us all.

Psalms 96 : 7 - 9

Chapter 96

7 Give to the LORD, O families of the peoples, Give to the LORD glory and strength.
8 Give to the LORD the glory due His name; Bring an offering, and come into His courts.
9 Oh, worship the LORD in the beauty of holiness! Tremble before Him, all the earth.


Hallelujah. 

 

Divine Gospel

Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord.
Our Lord God, Savior, and King of us all, Jesus Christ, the Living Son of God to whom be glory forever.
Amen.

John 6 : 5 - 14

Chapter 6

5 Then Jesus lifted up His eyes, and seeing a great multitude coming toward Him, He said to Philip, "Where shall we buy bread, that these may eat?"
6 But this He said to test him, for He Himself knew what He would do.
7 Philip answered Him, "Two hundred denarii worth of bread is not sufficient for them, that every one of them may have a little."
8 One of His disciples, Andrew, Simon Peter's brother, said to Him,
9 "There is a lad here who has five barley loaves and two small fish, but what are they among so many?"
10 Then Jesus said, "Make the people sit down." Now there was much grass in the place. So the men sat down, in number about five thousand.
11 And Jesus took the loaves, and when He had given thanks He distributed them to the disciples, and the disciples to those sitting down; and likewise of the fish, as much as they wanted.
12 So when they were filled, He said to His disciples, "Gather up the fragments that remain, so that nothing is lost."
13 Therefore they gathered them up, and filled twelve baskets with the fragments of the five barley loaves which were left over by those who had eaten.
14 Then those men, when they had seen the sign that Jesus did, said, "This is truly the Prophet who is to come into the world."


And Glory be to God forever. 

 

DAILY CONTEMPLATION
التكامل‏ ‏وخطورة‏ ‏الفضيلة‏ ‏الواحدة

قال‏ ‏السيد‏ ‏الرب‏ ‏في‏ ‏العظة‏ ‏علي‏ ‏الجبل‏ ‏كونوا‏ ‏أنتم‏ ‏أيضا‏ ‏كاملين‏, ‏كما‏ ‏أن‏ ‏أباكم‏ ‏الذي‏ ‏في‏ ‏السموات‏ ‏هو‏ ‏كامل‏ (‏مت‏ 5: 48).‏
إذن‏ ‏الشخصية‏ ‏من‏ ‏المفروض‏ ‏أن‏ ‏تكون‏ ‏كاملة‏ ‏في‏ ‏كل‏ ‏شيء‏, ‏لتحتفظ‏ ‏بصورة‏ ‏الله‏ ‏التي‏ ‏خلقت‏ ‏بها‏ ‏منذ‏ ‏البدء‏ ‏تك‏1.‏
غير‏ ‏أن‏ ‏الأنسان‏ ‏ـ‏ ‏وهو‏ ‏سائر‏ ‏في‏ ‏طريق‏ ‏الحياة‏ ‏ـ‏ ‏كثيرا‏ ‏ما‏ ‏يصطدم‏ ‏بمشكلة‏ ‏في‏ ‏حياة‏ ‏البر‏, ‏وهو‏ ‏أن‏ ‏فضيلة‏ ‏تبدو‏ ‏أمامه‏ ‏كما‏ ‏لو‏ ‏كانت‏ ‏تصطدم‏ ‏بفضيلة‏ ‏أخري‏ ‏أو‏ ‏تتناقض‏ ‏معها‏!! ‏فلا‏ ‏يدري‏ ‏في‏ ‏أيهما‏ ‏يسلك‏, ‏وبأيهما‏ ‏يضحي‏..!‏
فهو‏ ‏قد‏ ‏يجد‏ ‏أن‏ ‏فضيلة‏ ‏الوداعة‏ ‏ضد‏ ‏فضيلة‏ ‏الشجاعة‏! ‏ويري‏ ‏أن‏ ‏الطيبة‏ ‏ضد‏ ‏الحزم‏, ‏وأن‏ ‏التواضع‏ ‏ضد‏ ‏قوة‏ ‏الشخصية‏, ‏وأن‏ ‏البساطة‏ ‏ضد‏ ‏الحكمة‏, ‏وأن‏ ‏حياة‏ ‏الخدمة‏ ‏لا‏ ‏تساعد‏ ‏علي‏ ‏حياة‏ ‏التأمل‏..!!‏
وهكذا‏ ‏يرتبك‏ ‏في‏ ‏أي‏ ‏الطرق‏ ‏يسلك‏! ‏وإن‏ ‏سلك‏ ‏في‏ ‏فضيلة‏ ‏علي‏ ‏حساب‏ ‏فضيلة‏ ‏أخري‏, ‏فإنه‏ ‏يضيع‏ ‏واحدة‏ ‏منهما‏! ‏ونحن‏ ‏ندعو‏ ‏إلي‏ ‏تكامل‏ ‏الفضائل‏ ‏لا‏ ‏إلي‏ ‏تناقضها‏..‏
ونري‏ ‏أنه‏ ‏يجب‏ ‏علي‏ ‏الإنسان‏ ‏الروحي‏ ‏أن‏ ‏يتصرف‏ ‏بحكمة‏, ‏ويعرف‏ ‏الوقت‏ ‏المناسب‏ ‏الذي‏ ‏يتصرف‏ ‏فيه‏ ‏حسب‏ ‏فضيلة‏ ‏معينة‏.‏
فالصمت‏ ‏مثلا‏ ‏حين‏ ‏يحسن‏ ‏الصمت‏. ‏والكلام‏ ‏حين‏ ‏يحسن‏ ‏الكلام‏.‏
وكذلك‏ ‏الطيبة‏ ‏في‏ ‏الوقت‏ ‏الذي‏ ‏تصلح‏ ‏له‏. ‏وأما‏ ‏الحزم‏ ‏فحين‏ ‏يلزم‏ ‏الحزم‏. ‏وهكذا‏ ‏مع‏ ‏باقي‏ ‏الفضائل‏.‏
فلا‏ ‏يسلك‏ ‏في‏ ‏فضيلة‏ ‏واحدة‏ ‏بغير‏ ‏حكمة‏, ‏مهما‏ ‏كانت‏ ‏الظروف‏ ‏والأسباب‏ ‏وإنما‏ ‏يكون‏ ‏سلوكه‏ ‏بإفراز‏, ‏مراعيا‏ ‏ما‏ ‏يناسب‏ ‏الحال‏, ‏وما‏ ‏تدعو‏ ‏إليه‏ ‏الحاجة‏.‏
ولنتناول‏ ‏مثلا‏ ‏موضوع‏ ‏الطيبة‏ ‏وقوة‏ ‏الشخصية‏, ‏ولنأخذ‏ ‏السيد‏ ‏المسيح‏ ‏له‏ ‏المجد‏ ‏كمثال‏ ‏لنا‏..‏
لقد‏ ‏كان‏ ‏السيد‏ ‏المسيح‏ ‏طيب‏ ‏القلب‏, ‏وما‏ ‏في‏ ‏ذلك‏ ‏شك‏, ‏هذا‏ ‏الذي‏ ‏إنه‏ ‏كان‏ ‏لا‏ ‏يخاصم‏ ‏ولا‏ ‏يصيح‏ ‏ولا‏ ‏يسمع‏ ‏أحد‏ ‏في‏ ‏الشوارع‏ ‏صوته‏ ‏قصبة‏ ‏مرضوضة‏ ‏لا‏ ‏يقصف‏, ‏وفتيلة‏ ‏مدخنة‏ ‏لا‏ ‏يطفئ‏ (‏مت‏ 12: 19‏ـ‏ 20) ‏وكأن‏ ‏ايضا‏ ‏طيب‏ ‏القلب‏, ‏يحب‏ ‏الأطفال‏ ‏ويحتضنهم‏ ‏مر‏ 10: 16 ‏وقد‏ ‏سامح‏ ‏المرأة‏ ‏الخاطئة‏ ‏ودافع‏ ‏عنها‏ ‏يو‏8: 3 ‏ـ‏ 11. ‏بل‏ ‏وصل‏ ‏الأمر‏ ‏به‏ ‏أن‏ ‏سمح‏ ‏للشيطان‏ ‏أن‏ ‏يجربه‏, ‏وأن‏ ‏يختار‏ ‏مكان‏ ‏ونوع‏ ‏التجربة‏ (‏مت‏ 4).‏
ومع‏ ‏كل‏ ‏ذلك‏, ‏فإن‏ ‏طيبة‏ ‏المسيح‏ ‏لم‏ ‏تمنع‏ ‏قوته‏ ‏وهيبته‏ ‏سمح‏ ‏للشيطان‏ ‏أن‏ ‏يجربه‏, ‏ولكن‏ ‏لما‏ ‏خرج‏ ‏ذاك‏ ‏عن‏ ‏حده‏ ‏انتهره‏ ‏وطرده‏ ‏من‏ ‏حضرته‏ ‏وقال‏ ‏له‏ ‏أذهب‏ ‏يا‏ ‏شيطان‏ ‏فذهب‏ (‏مت‏ 4:10‏ـ‏ 11), ‏كان‏ ‏السيد‏ ‏المسيح‏ ‏طيبا‏, ‏وكان‏ ‏قويا‏ ‏أيضا‏, ‏قويا‏ ‏في‏ ‏كلامه‏ ‏وفي‏ ‏تأثيره‏ ‏وفي‏ ‏اقناعه‏, ‏قويا‏ ‏في‏ ‏تصرفه‏, ‏كما‏ ‏يظهر‏ ‏ذلك‏ ‏في‏ ‏تطهيره‏ ‏للهيكل‏ ‏إذ‏ ‏طرد‏ ‏الباعة‏ ‏وقلب‏ ‏موائد‏ ‏الصيارفة‏ ‏وقال‏ ‏لهم‏: ‏مكتوب‏ ‏بيتي‏ ‏بيت‏ ‏الصلاة‏ ‏يدعي‏, ‏وأنتم‏ ‏جعلتموه‏ ‏مغارة‏ ‏لصوص‏ (‏مت‏ 21: 12‏ـ‏ 13).‏
في‏ ‏بعض‏ ‏الأوقات‏ ‏كان‏ ‏يحاور‏ ‏الكتبة‏ ‏والفريسيين‏, ‏ويقنعهم‏ ‏في‏ ‏هدوء‏ ‏وفي‏ ‏وقت‏ ‏آخر‏ ‏وبخهم‏ ‏بشدة‏, ‏وقال‏ ‏لهم‏ ‏ويل‏ ‏لكم‏ ‏أيها‏ ‏الكتبة‏ ‏والفريسيون‏ ‏المراءون‏.. 23. ‏كما‏ ‏وبخ‏ ‏الكهنة‏ ‏وقال‏ ‏لهم‏ ‏ملكوت‏ ‏الله‏ ‏ينزع‏ ‏منكم‏, ‏ويعطي‏ ‏لأمة‏ ‏تصنع‏ ‏ثماره‏ (‏مت‏ 21: 43).‏
كان‏ ‏متواضعا‏, ‏وحازما‏, ‏وفي‏ ‏حزمه‏ ‏كان‏ ‏محبا‏ ‏أيضا‏, ‏إنه‏ ‏متواضع‏ ‏ووديع‏, ‏كما‏ ‏قال‏ ‏لتلاميذه‏ ‏تعلموا‏ ‏مني‏ ‏فإني‏ ‏وديع‏ ‏ومتواضع‏ ‏القلب‏ (‏مت‏ 11: 29). ‏ومع‏ ‏ذلك‏ ‏كان‏ ‏في‏ ‏منتهي‏ ‏الحزم‏ ‏في‏ ‏مواقف‏ ‏متعددة‏ ‏صفة‏ ‏الحب‏ ‏مع‏ ‏الحزم‏, ‏تتضح‏ ‏في‏ ‏ذلك‏ ‏البيت‏ ‏من‏ ‏الشعر‏:‏
يا‏ ‏قويا‏ ‏ممسكا‏ ‏بالسوط‏ ‏في‏ ‏
كفه‏ ‏والحب‏ ‏يدمي‏ ‏مدمعك
كان‏ ‏يحب‏ ‏تلاميذه‏, ‏وكان‏ ‏ينتهرهم‏ ‏أيضا‏ ‏متي‏ ‏استدعي‏ ‏الأمر‏, ‏وهكذا‏ ‏قيل‏ ‏إنه‏ ‏أحب‏ ‏خاصته‏ ‏الذين‏ ‏في‏ ‏العالم‏, ‏أحبهم‏ ‏حتي‏ ‏المنتهي‏ (‏يو‏ 13: 1). ‏وفي‏ ‏حبه‏ ‏لهم‏ ‏تواضع‏ ‏وغسل‏ ‏أرجلهم‏ ‏يو‏ 13:5 ‏ومع‏ ‏ذلك‏ ‏لما‏ ‏أراد‏ ‏بطرس‏ ‏أن‏ ‏يمنعه‏ ‏عن‏ ‏الصليب‏, ‏قال‏ ‏له‏ ‏اذهب‏ ‏عني‏ ‏يا‏ ‏شيطان‏ ‏أنت‏ ‏معثرة‏ ‏لي‏ (‏مت‏ 16:23).‏
وبنفس‏ ‏الحزم‏ ‏وبخ‏ ‏تلميذيه‏ ‏لما‏ ‏قالا‏ ‏له‏ ‏أتشاء‏ ‏أن‏ ‏تنزل‏ ‏نار‏ ‏من‏ ‏السماء‏ ‏وتحرق‏ ‏هذه‏ ‏المدينة‏ (‏لو‏ 9: 55).‏
إن‏ ‏الحب‏ ‏والحزم‏ ‏يمكن‏ ‏أن‏ ‏يجتمعا‏ ‏معا‏. ‏ولكن‏ ‏من‏ ‏الأشياء‏ ‏الغريبة‏ ‏في‏ ‏محيط‏ ‏الأسرة‏ ‏أن‏ ‏الوالدين‏ ‏قد‏ ‏يوزعان‏ ‏الحب‏ ‏والحزم‏ ‏فيما‏ ‏بينهما‏..!‏
فيكون‏ ‏للأم‏ ‏الحب‏, ‏وللأب‏ ‏الحزم‏, ‏بينما‏ ‏ينبغي‏ ‏أن‏ ‏يكون‏ ‏الحب‏ ‏والحزم‏ ‏لكل‏ ‏منهما‏. ‏ولكن‏ ‏يحدث‏ ‏إن‏ ‏أخطأ‏ ‏الابن‏ ‏أو‏ ‏حاول‏ ‏أن‏ ‏يخطئ‏ ‏تقول‏ ‏له‏ ‏الأم‏ ‏لا‏ ‏تفعل‏ ‏هكذا‏ ‏لئلا‏ ‏يغضب‏ ‏أبوك‏ ‏ويعاقبك‏ ‏دون‏ ‏أن‏ ‏تقول‏ ‏له‏ ‏إنها‏ ‏أيضا‏ ‏لا‏ ‏ترضي‏ ‏عن‏ ‏ذلك‏ ‏الأمر‏! ‏ويختلط‏ ‏الأمر‏ ‏علي‏ ‏الابن‏, ‏ولا‏ ‏يعرف‏ ‏أين‏ ‏الحق‏. ‏كل‏ ‏ما‏ ‏في‏ ‏الأمر‏ ‏أمامه‏ ‏أنه‏ ‏يتقي‏ ‏غضب‏ ‏الأب‏!.‏
مثال‏ ‏آخر‏ ‏للحب‏ ‏والحزم‏, ‏في‏ ‏معاملة‏ ‏يوسف‏ ‏الصديق‏ ‏لإخوته‏, ‏كانوا‏ ‏إخوته‏ ‏أكبر‏ ‏منه‏ ‏سنا‏. ‏وكانت‏ ‏لهم‏ ‏أخطاؤهم‏. ‏أولئك‏ ‏لم‏ ‏يربهم‏ ‏أبوهم‏ ‏يعقوب‏, ‏فتولي‏ ‏يوسف‏ ‏تربيتهم‏. ‏سواهم‏ ‏علي‏ ‏نار‏ ‏هادئة‏, ‏وبحكمة‏ ‏وبحزم‏ ‏شديدين‏, ‏حتي‏ ‏تذكروا‏ ‏خطاياهم‏ ‏وبكوا‏ ‏أمامه‏. ‏وحتي‏ ‏قال‏ ‏بعضهم‏ ‏لبعض‏ ‏حقا‏ ‏أننا‏ ‏مذنبون‏ ‏إلي‏ ‏أخينا‏, ‏الذي‏ ‏رأينا‏ ‏ضيقة‏ ‏نفسه‏ ‏لما‏ ‏استرحمنا‏ ‏ولم‏ ‏نسمع‏ ‏له‏. ‏لذلك‏ ‏جاءت‏ ‏علينا‏ ‏هذه‏ ‏الضيقة‏ (‏تك‏ 42:21).‏
ومع‏ ‏حزم‏ ‏يوسف‏, ‏نري‏ ‏محبته‏ ‏لإخوته‏ ‏واضحة‏, ‏إذ‏ ‏يقول‏ ‏الكتاب‏ ‏إنه‏ ‏لما‏ ‏رأي‏ ‏مذلتهم‏ ‏أمامه‏ ‏تحول‏ ‏عنهم‏ ‏وبكي‏ ‏ثم‏ ‏رجع‏ ‏اليهم‏ ‏وكلمهم‏ ‏وأخذ‏ ‏منهم‏ ‏شمعون‏ ‏وقيده‏ ‏أمامهم‏ (‏تك‏ 42: 4) ‏وأخيرا‏ ‏لما‏ ‏أدرك‏ ‏النتيجة‏ ‏التي‏ ‏وصل‏ ‏إليها‏ ‏بحزمه‏, ‏يقول‏ ‏الكتاب‏ ‏إن‏ ‏يوسف‏ ‏لم‏ ‏يستطع‏ ‏أن‏ ‏يضبط‏ ‏نفسه‏.. ‏وأنه‏ ‏أطلق‏ ‏صوته‏ ‏بالبكاء‏.. ‏وقال‏ ‏لأخوته‏: ‏أنا‏ ‏يوسف‏. ‏أحي‏ ‏أبي‏ ‏بعد؟‏ (‏تك‏ 45: 1‏ـ‏ 3).‏
وعلي‏ ‏الرغم‏ ‏من‏ ‏حزمه‏ ‏الشديد‏ ‏في‏ ‏معاملة‏ ‏أخوته‏, ‏وخوفهم‏ ‏منه‏ ‏لأنهم‏ ‏سبقوا‏ ‏أن‏ ‏باعوه‏, ‏نراه‏ ‏يطمئنهم‏ ‏علي‏ ‏مستقبلهم‏ ‏وبخاصة‏ ‏بعد‏ ‏موت‏ ‏أبيهم‏ ‏لما‏ ‏سجدوا‏ ‏أمامه‏ ‏وطلبوا‏ ‏صفحه‏ ‏عنهم‏. ‏يقول‏ ‏الكتاب‏ ‏فبكي‏ ‏يوسف‏ ‏حين‏ ‏كلموه‏.. ‏وقال‏ ‏لهم‏ ‏لا‏ ‏تخافوا‏ ‏أنتم‏ ‏قصدتم‏ ‏لي‏ ‏شرا‏, ‏أما‏ ‏الله‏ ‏فقصد‏ ‏بي‏ ‏خيرا‏.. ‏وقال‏ ‏لهم‏ ‏لا‏ ‏تخافوا‏ ‏أنا‏ ‏أعولكم‏ ‏وأولادكم‏, ‏فعزاهم‏ ‏وطيب‏ ‏قلوبهم‏ (‏تك‏ 50: 16, 21).‏
ننتقل‏ ‏إلي‏ ‏نقطة‏ ‏أخري‏, ‏وهي‏ ‏الوداعة‏ ‏والشجاعة‏:‏
ليست‏ ‏الوادعة‏ ‏ضد‏ ‏الشجاعة‏, ‏ولا‏ ‏الشجاعة‏ ‏ضد‏ ‏الوداعة‏, ‏ويمكن‏ ‏للإنسان‏ ‏الروحي‏ ‏أن‏ ‏يجمع‏ ‏بينهما‏, ‏كما‏ ‏نري‏ ‏في‏ ‏قصص‏ ‏الآباء‏ ‏والأنبياء‏.. ‏كان‏ ‏داود‏ ‏شجاعا‏ ‏جدا‏, ‏إذ‏ ‏وقف‏ ‏ضد‏ ‏جليات‏ ‏الجبار‏ ‏وهزمه‏, ‏في‏ ‏وقت‏ ‏كان‏ ‏فيه‏ ‏كل‏ ‏الجيش‏ ‏خائفا‏ ‏منه‏, ‏وكان‏ ‏وديعا‏ ‏إذ‏ ‏يقال‏ ‏عنه‏ ‏في‏ ‏المزمور‏: ‏اذكر‏ ‏يا‏ ‏رب‏ ‏داود‏ ‏وكل‏ ‏دعته‏ (‏مز‏ 131:1) ‏ومع‏ ‏أنه‏ ‏كان‏ ‏قائدا‏ ‏في‏ ‏الجيش‏, ‏كان‏ ‏كل‏ ‏الشعب‏ ‏يحبه‏ ‏لأنه‏ ‏كان‏ ‏يخرج‏ ‏ويدخل‏ ‏أمامهم‏ (‏اصم‏ 18: 16). ‏ولما‏ ‏كلموه‏ ‏عن‏ ‏مصاهرة‏ ‏الملك‏ ‏شاول‏, ‏أجابهم‏ ‏هل‏ ‏هو‏ ‏مستخف‏ ‏في‏ ‏أعينكم‏ ‏مصاهرة‏ ‏الملك‏, ‏وأنا‏ ‏رجل‏ ‏مسكين‏ ‏وحقير‏ (‏اصم‏ 18: 23).‏